When a man understands that masculinity is a giving principle, he can call out the femininity in a woman. A women must be filled up with his masculinity to give back with joy. When she has not been properly given that which she needs, then she is giving back from a state of depletion. A woman¡¯s energy is a reflection of a man¡¯s treatment of her.
This can be proven scientifically and spiritually.
Some Men dare not admit their sensitivity! These men are more likely to die from abject frustration. And we may not want to admit it, but words can completely destroy a man -Especially after 40 when his testosterone lowers and estrogen increases (he becomes even more sensitive).
Correcting the imbalance of energies between a man and a women starts with the man recognizing what it is to be a man and doing it.
Even the atoms in a women¡¯s blood stream function differently than a man¡¯s. The atoms in a women¡¯s blood tilt with the tilt of the earth and a man¡¯s don¡¯t. Women can feel their heart beat just by focusing on it, but men need to find it physically (until he fully embraces his masculine). It's as if emotion is in a little room of its own and a man's smaller corpus callosum means that emotion is less likely to operate simultaneously with other functions. Men don¡¯t need to get in touch with their feminine side. They really need to learn to better understand their masculinity.
Women absorb info through the effective (or feeling) side of her brain first. Everything she hears, sees, smells or touches- she feels before processing. This is also exhibited through a woman¡¯s language.
Next the info goes to her ¡®language center¡¯. A woman has a large corpus callosum, which can process a great deal of information (thinking and feeling) very quickly. In order to process info a women talk about it first. Talking connects what a woman thinks with what she feels.
When a man doesn¡¯t allow a woman to express herself with words he is attempting to suppress her femininity.
For a man, info enters the brain on the logical side (the opposite side of the brain), and then proceeds to the ¡®action center¡¯. He likes to either fix it or solve it. He has to consciously "engage himself "in order to listen to a woman properly.
A man¡¯s corpus callosum is fairly small and he prefers to process his feelings in silence. A man has difficulty with communicating and being emotional. A man can only think or feel. He cannot do both until he has developed his corpus colosum or the transfer of information from both halves of his brain!
Until he does that, He does not register information with emotion.
A woman can only feel what kind of man you are when she¡¯s talking. If a man¡¯s a good listener then she will feel safe. She only feels safe with him if she feels heard.
When a woman is both emotional and talking she can process and access large amounts of information very quickly. She registers details as emotions so can retrieve them quickly.
The more upset a woman becomes the more expanded her awareness becomes and she becomes more clear when allowed to process!
A man was not designed to argue when emotional. When he tries, he gets stuck on the feeling side of his brain and short circuits. (Until he develops hi corpus colosum. He can¡¯t get to his logic side to say anything significant and he gets frustrated and just says stupid, irrelevant things. He needs to go into silence to think about info in an argument before he can properly respond.
It takes true masculinity to listen to a woman speak for an hour.
There are 3 things that most important to a man in a relationship.
1. Appreciation & Respect.
~ If you show appreciation for his actions, he will find more stuff to do to get some more.
2. Intimacy (feeling close comes through touch including sex)
3. Her Happiness.
All religions and spiritual teachings say to respect your man. They don¡¯t speak about loving him. A man does not feel loved without feeling respected. He does not love others unless he respects them. A woman can love without respect. A man needs to call out respect and appreciation from a woman by drawing out her femininity with how he treats her.
Sex is the strongest driving force within a man. This energy can be funneled into spirituality.
A woman can get more sexual enjoyment out of a conversation then sex itself.
The more sex a man has with a woman, the closer he ¡®feels¡¯ to her. It has less to to do with love, than closeness.
A mother teaches a man how to receive love through giving it and how to give love by unconditionally receiving his.
The most intimate thing a man can do for a woman is listen to her. He has to learn she wants to be heard and acknowledged.
The 7 most important aspects of a relationship for a woman are;
1. Safe ¨Cspiritually and emotionally he always there.
2. Defended
3. Supported ¨Cemotionally. Don¡¯t ever compete.
4. Belonging ¨Cletting her inside his inner world.
5. Accepted -1st before anyone or thing.
6. Cared About ¨CShow her that you get her.
7. Special
A great way for a Dad to teach his daughter what to expect from a man who knows how to treat a woman is to take her out on a date and show her how she should be treated.