- Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/25/2008
苦瓜,我越来越喜欢你爹娘了,强悍,勇猛,热爱生活。我们中国人就缺少这种视死如归的革命气概,总是忧心忡忡的。
好看。我也刚煮了一锅红烧肉。用绍兴料酒,橘子皮,酱油微火敦了两个小时。
:-) - Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/25/2008
嗯,我都闻到七月的红烧肉的味道了~~~
我觉得我爹娘还不是强悍勇猛,热爱生活是肯定的。对旁人来说他们挺可爱的,对他们自己的孩子来说,这爹娘当得有点儿太酷了。闹地震的年代,红烧肉是很罕见的食物,那天他们去买了肉,做那么一大锅红烧肉肯定是有特别的想法的。我当时9岁半,觉得他们简直酷毙了。
七月喜欢看他们的故事,我把以前写的一篇放在这儿,等我老了以后,看能不能写出不同的故事来。
- Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/25/2008
哎呀,苦瓜啊,你娘太酷了! 她除游泳外还玩别的什么不?
我娘虽然不到26岁就会游泳,还是排球垒球健将,可早就撒手不干了,怎么激励都不灵. 哎, 人都一样,娘可是不一样哟! :) - Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/25/2008
每次见到讨论红烧肉就忍不住贴这个:
你们继续说你们的哈。 - Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/25/2008
鹿希,你娘也很厉害。我娘年轻的时候练体操、跳伞,滑舢板,据说那5根弹簧的拉力器随便拉(我没见过),要当职业运动员被她娘阻止了。后来生了孩子就老说腰疼,估计是运动不平衡,伤了身体。现在靠游泳维持筋骨活络。 - Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/25/2008
阿姗 wrote:
每次见到讨论红烧肉就忍不住贴这个:
这是一个雕塑吗?太生活化了~~~。 - Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/25/2008
苦瓜,太爱你那酷酷的美女娘了!
我们今天能做些什么可以有朝一日成为孩子们笔下的酷毙了的娘呢。
羡慕她的洒脱。 - Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/25/2008
kugua should write more 娘's story, she is a very unconventional woman with the air of comedy. I can see how funny could be if she plays a soap series :-) She is full of life. - Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/25/2008
小雨,
酷娘对娘自己来说不是坏事,对孩子来说不是好事。有了酷娘之后,孩子们都恨不得去最偏远的山村,嫁个最老实巴交的村民,才觉得踏实。
July,你说得对。我也想过,爹娘这俩人是过日子呢,还是排电影呢? - Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/25/2008
感慨一把。
kugua wrote:
过后再看到那样的夕阳,脑子里偶尔会想起那锅无所畏惧的红烧肉。
- Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/25/2008
当时四川松潘毛儿盖有强震,仿佛就近在咫尺,我们虽然没有地震棚,但也是生活在恐惧之中。有一夜我被蚊子叮醒的时候,睁眼只看见月黑风高,原来是我妈把我从屋子里抱将出来,大半夜就睡在马路中央。当时我妈也就八九十斤的体重,能把四十多斤的我抱起长途奔袭,估计也有类似红烧肉的营养支撑着,下次打电话问一问。 - Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/26/2008
我说呢,原来苦瓜的酷是在基因里的呀。真的很喜欢你爹娘,有股子大无畏的精神哈:)要说你爹娘彻底不信那些地震的传闻也不是,要不不会烧锅肉,最可爱就是这掌握自己能掌握的其余听天由命的劲儿。苦瓜写的也好,多多写来。苦瓜你小时候是不是个特操心的孩子呀? - Re: 红烧肉posted on 03/26/2008
浮生,我小时候特别婆婆妈妈。现在看见女儿做家务就制止,怕她将来像我一样该做的时候不爱做了。 - posted on 03/27/2008
kugua, I see a lot of you, if not more, defintely not less than your mom from your mom's vivid stories. I can understand more about the bitter part of your name.
The world in our eyes or words, is more of our own perception than what the "reality" really is. The once bitterness now revived and very much cheerful and alive is a sign of maturity. Gratifying, we often look back and learn to appreciate and cherish something we did not think we had, even something we once resented at.
I recently reconnected with a childhood friend. She told me in email that she was so jealous about me, because "your mom gave you so much freedom and she was always smiling." Her comment about my mom did not surprise me, but her being jealous did. For many years, I enjoyed the "freedom", and I wished my mom kept her on top of me more like other moms.
Things like this, and kuguo's stories, make me rethink the question about how to be a better parent for my child now.
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