坐飞机翻看消遣杂志,老美关于幸福婚姻的问卷调查。我对具体的百分比不感兴趣,只想知道咖啡客对如下九条要素的排序(最后公布老美的调查结果):
Adequate income
Agreement on politics
Children
Faithfulness
Good housing
Happy sexual relationship
Shared religious beliefs
Shared tastes and interests
Sharing of household chores
What's your order of importance from factors 1 to 9?
- Re: 【周末八卦】什么是幸福婚姻的要素?posted on 12/15/2007
Faithfulness
Happy sexual relationship
Shared tastes and interests
Shared religious beliefs
Agreement on politics
Sharing of household chores
Children
Adequate income
Good housing - posted on 12/15/2007
Children
Sharing of household chores
Adequate income
Happy sexual relationship
Agreement on politics
Shared tastes and interests
Faithfulness
Good housing
Shared religious beliefs
看来我已经从理想主义变成了现实主义。
有了 adequate income,就可以买到 good housing,也可以请人做 household chores。所以这三条是一致的。
有了 happy sexual relationship,faithfulness 也不成问题。
志同道合就是指 agreement on politics,shared religious beliefs,shared tastes and interests。
我觉得婚姻是两个人签的一份经济合约。不过很多有钱人也照样离婚。有子女的也离婚。可是有的婚姻不幸福的,却不离婚。
所以我也搞不懂。 - posted on 12/15/2007
并排第一,并且加上一点。
Sharing of household chores; Shared tastes and interests,with unshared tastes and interests.
WOA wrote:
坐飞机翻看消遣杂志,老美关于幸福婚姻的问卷调查。我对具体的百分比不感兴趣,只想知道咖啡客对如下九条要素的排序(最后公布老美的调查结果):
Adequate income
Agreement on politics
Children
Faithfulness
Good housing
Happy sexual relationship
Shared religious beliefs
Shared tastes and interests
Sharing of household chores
What's your order of importance from factors 1 to 9?
- Re: 【周末八卦】什么是幸福婚姻的要素?posted on 12/15/2007
Shared religious beliefs
Happy sexual relationship
Adequate income
Faithfulness
Shared tastes and interests
Children
Agreement on politics
Good housing
Sharing of household chores
“幸福的家庭都是类似的,不幸的家庭各有各的不幸。”
有没有研究老人幸(性)福的,现在最感兴趣。
- Re: 【周末八卦】什么是幸福婚姻的要素?posted on 12/15/2007
Now I have a real appreciation of how serious WOA's insomnia problem is.
How can one look at the list without falling into sleep? - Re: 【周末八卦】什么是幸福婚姻的要素?posted on 12/15/2007
大家都不把Faithful放在第一,说明大家对自己或自己的配偶在外面寻花问柳都无所谓的。:) - Re: 【周末八卦】什么是幸福婚姻的要素?posted on 12/15/2007
嘻嘻,我看这九条不管什么顺序,要是都有了,多半是个 boring marriage :)
Faithfulness,是 Florentino 那种吗? - Re: 【周末八卦】什么是幸福婚姻的要素?posted on 12/15/2007
Shared religious beliefs
Shared tastes and interests
Happy sexual relationship
Adequate income
Good housing
Children
Faithfulness
Sharing of household chores
Agreement on politics
- Re: 【周末八卦】什么是幸福婚姻的要素?posted on 12/15/2007
Shared tastes and interests
相爱容易相处难.
Children.
生活是妥协的艺术. 孩子的事很难妥协,为孩子许多事都可妥协.
Adequate income
贫贱夫妻百事哀.
- Re: 【周末八卦】什么是幸福婚姻的要素?posted on 12/18/2007
感谢大家参与,我自己的答案如下:
婚姻三要素:
Sharing of household chores
Adequate income
Children
在此基础上,幸福婚姻三要素:
Faithfulness
Happy sexual relationship
Shared tastes and interests
再上一层楼,完美幸福婚姻三要素:
Good housing
Shared religious beliefs
Agreement on politics
:))) - Re: 【周末八卦】什么是幸福婚姻的要素?posted on 12/18/2007
老哇实在太啰嗦了。幸福婚姻的唯一要素就是老婆有个沙漏器般身材。没别的。;) - posted on 12/20/2007
touche wrote:
老哇实在太啰嗦了。幸福婚姻的唯一要素就是老婆有个沙漏器般身材。没别的。;)
图邪助教,休要欺负国人不懂啥子叫沙漏,干脆挑明了,你是否在暗示“葫芦”的意思?:))
附上老美最终的调查结果统计(不作评论):
Faithfulness 93%
Happy sexual relationship 70%
Sharing household chores 62%
Adequate income 53%
Good housing 51%
Shared religious beliefs 49%
Shared tastes and interests 46%
Children 41%
Agreement on politics 12%
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